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The needles of time do not always sew all our wounds

The needles of time, sometimes, are precise and healing , appease pains and help us to relativize things. Now, it should be said that none ...

The needles of time, sometimes, are precise and healing , appease pains and help us to relativize things. Now, it should be said that none of these injuries of traumatic origin disappears forever, they simply remember without hurting as much as before.

We are accustomed to hearing that “time heals everything”, that distance is therapeutic and that most of the times the negative things we have experienced serve us appropriate learning.

Well, it’s important to tint some things. Our brain does not forget, and not everything made painful serves as learning.

Actually, more than a teaching, losses or acts burdened with pain, we are forced to accept certain things by force and without anesthesia .

There is no other option but to understand that “nothing is forever” and that what we assume today as true, tomorrow can be a hard uncertainty.

We propose to reflect on these aspects.

The wounds that life leaves us

To lose a loved one, to suffer an emotional disappointment, to end a friendship, to be betrayed, to fail in something that excited us … All these are facts that we have had to face some time.

We often read or hear things like “to understand what life is, one must suffer at some point.” It is not necessarily so. Vital learning is obtained in many ways, in fact the happy moments are great teachers when guiding us, when inviting us to move forward.

The traumatic events, the wounds, what they get many times is “run aground” . Prevent us from moving forward because we feel very hurt. What can we do in these cases? What strategies should we follow when suffering overflows us?

The needles of time do not always sew all our wounds

Learning to live with that emptiness

There is no magic formula for solving those vital intersections in which we end sometime in our life cycle. There are no pills that end completely with the pain of life , nor any machine of the time that allows us to avoid certain facts.

  • Wounds, whether we like it or not, will always be there . Time is not an architect so effective as to make them disappear, but that yes, they will heal and will not hurt as much as the first day. It will be a pain with which we can coexist.
  • Many people have learned to live with their gaps: the absence of their loved ones, with the scar of that mistake, that bad choice.
  • The essential thing in these cases is to prevent our own suffering from making us captive . Do not feed the resistance. We should not say that “after this life is no longer worth it”, “now I can not be happy again.” Do not do it.

The key is to work acceptance. What has happened is, reality is what it is and the only option is to accept it, in turn, to accept ourselves in that new situation.

The love for oneself

Life strikes us from time to time with its waves, with its coldness and irrational logic. Why do you take away from us what we most want? Why has this touched me if I am a good person, if I always wish the best for everyone?

Sometimes, if we obsess about finding a meaning to what does not, we feed our tragedy even more. It is not the right thing to do.

The needles of time do not always sew all our wounds

When we suffer a painful event there is an aspect that we almost always forget: to care for ourselves, to pamper ourselves and to take care of ourselves. Before the blows of life nothing better than to reconnect with ourselves to assume the facts and remind us that we deserve to be happy again.

  • If you have lost someone remember that you must continue to smile for that loved one , who sleeps forever in your heart and memory.

If someone has hurt you, do not feed that pain because you will be reinforcing the presence of who hurts you. Accept the facts, then release yourself and let go of that shadow. Reborn from your wounds.

To conclude, we must be clear that the wounds of the soul never heal completely . They will remain forever there, but patched to allow your heart to continue pumping.

Allow yourself to be happy again, allow life to embrace you again as you deserve.

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